What Will It Take To Make You Happy?
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Don't censor what you take to God for prayer:
And whatever concerns you matters, so ask for help,
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It's not the CIRCUMSTANCES that bring the reality to you. A good job doesn't ensure you'll be rich, secure and happy in that job. Your RESONANCE determines whether you'll be rich, secure and happy. A good job can be the detail the universe chooses, but so could a great investment paying off that frees you to open your own business, or a neighbor deciding to live in Europe and asking you to run her business.
If you send out a pure energy of prosperity, security, ease, fun, etc. and let the universe decide how it arrives, you are opening every possible door that could bring you this reality. If you have rigid ideas of how and when and whether you can have what you want, you are closing the possible avenues of its arrival, one by one.
Know you CAN have everything you desire. Know that it will take time, patience, knowledge, skill and healing to open ALL the
doors of possibility.
The universe and your Higher Powers WILL take care of the details - IF you do your part and become crystal clear about how you want it to FEEL
when it arrives.
How Do You Know if a Dream is Coming?
Part of consciously manifesting what we want, is expecting it to happen, but how do we know if we've aligned our energy successfully?
Be it in the form of affirmations, techniques, visualization, acting as if, etc...you DO need to feed your dreams in order for them to become real.
OK. You've got a dream, or at least a piece of one. You've processed through whether you really want it. You've changed the beliefs that opposed the dream. You have started to do the techniques to make the dream a reality. Are they working? Is your reality changing? Is the dream coming?
You don't have to wait until the dream is 100% real - staring you in the face - before you can determine whether you are succeeding. All along the way there are clues that let you know whether you are headed in the direction of your dreams, or deluding yourself in fantasyland.
Here are the tell-tale indications that show you WILL be getting what you want!
DO YOU EXPECT IT?
If you are on target with manifesting your desire, you'll reach a place of genuine expectation.
When you are really expecting something to happen, you plan for it. If you are creating financial independence, you read books on investment strategies and
how to protect and grow your money. If you are planning a career as a singer, you investigate voice classes and plan the costumes
you will wear on stage.
True expectation is a knowing deep inside that something is about to happen. Do you expect the sun to come up tomorrow? That is the feeling you want to have about the aspects of your dream you are working on creating.
DO YOU FEEL EXCITED WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT?
I have a friend who has had so much disappointment around creating a loving relationship that when he thinks about it, he turns his
thoughts away in disgust. He is disappointed, disillusioned, and feels powerless to create it.
All he can focus upon is that he DOESN'T have the woman of his dreams in his life.
Needless to say, his energy is actually pushing away any possibility of his dream happening. The universe delivers exactly what you ask for. His energy is asking for constant disappointment, because that is all he feels.
When you are on track with what you desire, it feels GOOD to think about it arriving. This indicates your beliefs are in alignment (you truly believe you can have this thing) and you truly want it.
If you feel less than good, or you feel good for a little bit then thoughts come up like -
"What if I don't get it?" or "What if it's not as good as I hope?" or
"What if I have to sacrifice such-and-such?", it's not bad!
Your emotions and thoughts are only showing you what needs to be changed and/or healed to allow this creation.
DO YOU GIVE IT DAILY POSITIVE ENERGY?
Dreams in the back of your mind may indeed manifest, but generally their manifestation is not imminent.
If you REALLY want to see positive change quickly, you need to give your desire regular positive energy. Be it in the form of affirmations, techniques, visualization,
acting as if, etc.. you DO need to feed your dreams in order for them to become real.
DO YOU SEE SIGNS OF IT COMING?
One of my spiritual teachers, * Lazaris, says you should always receive a sign within three days of a powerful technique. I have found this to be absolutely true and lots of fun too!
Many people who have a heartfelt desire for something want it so badly that if it isn't in their reality instantly, they are depressed because
they don't have it. Feeling depression, disappointment and lack are sending the message to the universe that "I DON
"T HAVE THIS."
So the universe says, "OK. This person ordered one helping of lack", and it
delivers.
But if that same person really understood the laws of the universe, they would realize in this physical reality it DOES take time to
manifest things (usually - but that's another column for another day).
If you can teach yourself to look for and acknowledge the signs that what you want is coming, you will be able to encourage yourself to stay positive and expectant
enough to keep focusing on your dream.
So What Is A Sign?
It's something that manifests quickly that is an indication your energy is focused and directed positively towards the thing you want. It takes staying conscious and some practice to identify the signs when they show up. A sign can be something someone says, something on TV or in the paper. It can be something you find, a dream,or a phone call. It is something positively associated with what you are creating. Here are some examples:
A woman who attended several of my seminars put her hand up when I was talking about signs. "Boni," she said, "I
have been trying to create a relationship with a man I know for a couple of months now. I do the techniques but I don't receive ANY signs."
I asked her to think hard, as to whether anyone in her reality had experienced any success in relationships recently, or if this man had had any interaction with her.
"Well," she said, hesitatingly, "he did sit down next to me in church this Sunday."
Apparently he had NEVER done that before. THAT, my friends, is a SIGN. Within a few weeks she was dating this man regularly.
I was working at manifesting money a number of years ago. I would create wonderful little signs indicating I was on the right track. After one technique, I walked into a store and the exact thing I was looking for was half price! After another technique, I walked to the mailbox and inside a magazine was a check - made out to a person on the other side of the country! What were the chances of that happening? It was a sign, that checks made out to ME were on the way too!
After another seminar, a man in the class was complaining he never had a sign. I asked him what he was working on creating and he told me he was focusing on his two businesses. We happened to be taking a walk together at the time, and he popped into the post office to pick up his mail. In the mail were TWO postcards - from two different people, each praising one of his TWO businesses. He didn't see it until I pointed it out, but this, too, is a sign!
Begin to assess whether YOU are on track with your creations by following these guidelines, and you'll increase your expectancy, your
belief in the possibility of your dreams and you'll increase your power!
by Boni Lonnsburry
*Lazaris
has been communicating practical metaphysics and spirituality since 1974.
Covering an amazing array of topics, he gives both understanding of personal growth and
techniques to move forward into ever-increasing levels of self-love and personal power.
Part of this article by Jeanne.
Parts of this article by author unknown to me.
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